Dec 19, 2012


Here is an update. I am writing this because i have to. It has been too long since i have done anything.
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Sep 6, 2012

Why I Beat Up My Wife: Man At Centre Of CCTV Assault Case Tells His Story Exclusive From Malaysian Digest

The story does not belong to me. I am only copying and pasting it here because when tried to load the site it took me very long to access to the site and its somehow very sluggish so i am doing this as an alternative to those that want to read the story but couldn't read it directly from the site.


Almost overnight, the 26-year-old has become ‘public enemy number one’ on Malaysian social media networks, thanks to the availability of the videos, which has garnered him nationwide scorn and even earned him threats from strangers.

The videos, captured via the store’s CCTV cameras, were uploaded by his wife, 19-year-old Amanda Fong, on her Facebook page. Fong, who is two months pregnant, had also posted up pictures of the injuries she had sustained following the incident.

At last count, the videos have been ‘shared’ almost 25,000 times by Facebook users.

Met at his family home in Ipoh yesterday, Chik said he had no excuse for his actions and expressed remorse.

“I know that there is no reason or justification for my actions and I cannot defend myself over this. It was something that I should not have done. I regret it,” he told Malaysian Digest.

Chik claimed he and his wife had numerous arguments before, some of which had escalated into violence. He admitted that this wasn’t the first time that he had become physical with her, and vice versa.

“I don’t expect anyone to understand it, and I doubt if anyone ever will,” he said.

Bad Romance

Pix: SM AminPix: SM AminViolence, he stressed, has not always been a feature of their marriage. The couple first met in June last year and tied the knot on Jan 17 this year.

He claimed that the marriage was good in the beginning, but was eventually soured by the presence of his mother-in-law, whom he claimed was a disruptive influence.

He believed that Fong’s mother played a prominent role in influencing her daughter’s behaviour and for driving a wedge between them.

“My wife had a troubled upbringing. Her parents separated when she was young, and she was raised by her mother and grandmother. This was related to me when we first started to know each other,” he claimed.

His mother-in-law, he claimed, was warm to him at first but he eventually sensed that she disliked him. He claimed that when he went to her to ask for her blessing to seek Fong’s hand in marriage, his mother-in-law rejected him the first time around.

Chik related several incidences of when the mother-in-law’s behaviour puzzled him, such as when the newlyweds wanted to go to Macau for their honeymoon. He claimed the mother-in-law demanded that she be brought along.

“I thought it was a bizarre request, and my wife thought so too. This was after all, our honeymoon. My mother-in-law only dropped her demand when my wife bought her a ticket to London for a religious event, something which the former had been pestering her for previously,” he alleged.

Newfound Wealth, Mysterious Phone Calls

Chik claimed that when he first met Fong, the family was not well-off. Both mother, daughter and grandmother lived in a modest two-room flat in Ipoh.

“Amanda wasn’t working, nor studying, she told me her family couldn’t afford it. But as the relationship progressed, I saw Amanda having quite a bit of money. She then enrolled in a course at a local college, claiming that the fees came from a sponsor from her mother’s company.”

Chik said he didn’t want to question where the money came from, but became increasingly intrigued as her spending increased.

“She later began accumulating expensive clothes, handbags and started dining at expensive places. She no longer had to rely on me for money,” he claimed.

However, his curiosity reached its peak when she declared that she was interested in buying a brand-new Volkswagen Beetle, which costs almost RM200,000.

Chik, who ran a marketing company, claimed he knew there was no way she could qualify for a loan, even if she used her mother’s name as the mother did not make much.

She eventually told him that the source of her new-found wealth was an “inheritance from her late grandfather”, who owned several orchid farms in Malaysia. She told him that she received the money when she turned 18 from the caretaker of the family business.

He was also puzzled by ‘mysterious’ phone calls she received, and claimed that she was secretive over the nature of the calls. She claimed that the calls were from the caretaker.

He claimed she also declined to let him accompany her when she wanted to go and meet the caretaker. He claimed she met the caretaker on a weekly or fortnightly basis.

“Each time she returned, she would take her mother and I out for either a nice dinner or a shopping trip,” he claimed.

Chik claimed Fong eventually bought a brand new Honda Insight, which costs almost RM100,000. She claimed that the caretaker had helped secure the documents for the purchase.

“I tried to avoid thinking about it, but I reassured myself that this was all above board, and there was nothing going on,” he claimed.

Infidelity Shock

He claimed that in May, while using his wife’s iPhone to use her web browser, he stumbled upon a series of messages between Amanda and another person. The messages, he claimed, were affectionate and personal in nature.

“I was stunned. I didn’t know how to react to this, so I spoke with her grandmother,” he claimed.

He claimed the both of them then confronted Amanda, who tearfully confessed that she had been having an affair. She claimed the other man was an Ipoh-based Datuk, who was then revealed as the source of her wealth.

Chik claimed that the Datuk, who was married, was someone she had known before she met him, but she was unable to break it off.

“She subsequently pledged to have nothing more to do with the man,” he claimed.

He alleged that after her admission, Amanda became hysterical and threatened to kill herself, claiming that her life wasn’t worth it. He claimed it took sometime before they managed to calm her down and the situation got back to normal.

Depression and Suicide Threats

Chik disclosed that his wife was diagnosed as being clinically depressed, based on their visit to the Hospital Bahagia Ulu Kinta. He showed Malaysian Digest his wife’s medical diagnosis report, which stared that she suffered from depression.

He also later discovered that he suffered mild depression as well, as is currently taking medication for it.

He claimed that she was prone to fits of rage, and admitted that it was not something that he could usually help her with. He cited several instances of difficulty in dealing with her rage issues.

“There was an incident where an argument broke out between us in her home. She then took out a knife and chased me around the flat, threatening to stab me. She then sat on the bed and gave me a choice, which was to let her stab me, or she would stab herself.

“I was at a loss, and I broke down in tears. Her grandmother then came home and diffused the situation. But this wasn’t before she had slashed both her forearms.

“We knew that if we took her to a government hospital, she could be charged with attempted suicide, so we took her to a private clinic instead for treatment,” he claimed.


The CCTV Beating

 The incident, he claimed, started from a petty argument within the shop and swiftly escalated into a massive fight.

“I’ve read the comments on Facebook  and on blogs. I know what people are saying. My wife has also accused me of attempting to harm the baby, when it was the opposite.”
UNCUT: Chik showing the full version of the CCTV footage. Pix: SM AminUNCUT: Chik showing the full version of the CCTV footage. Pix: SM AminHe alleged that his wife had a history of driving off and “disappearing for hours” when they get into a fight.

“This always has me worried, given her pregnancy and her state of mind. There have been times when we were worried sick as she couldn’t be contacted for hours on end,” he claimed.

He claimed that he was trying to get her to remain in the store and not storm off. He also claimed that he was trying to defend himself from his wife’s attacks.

Chik, however, admitted that he should not have reacted violently.

“I have no excuse for that. It was something that shouldn’t have happened, it just went out of control,” he said.

He said he was fully prepared to face the consequences of his actions. Police are now investigating the case under Section 323 of the Penal Code for voluntarily causing hurt.

If charged and found guilty, he faces a maximum one year jail sentence or a maximum fine of RM2,000, or both.

Chik said he was aware of the possibility and was prepared to face them.

“I know what I did was wrong. I’m not running away from it, I’m not hiding. I will accept whatever comes my way.”

Sep 5, 2012

A Simple Guide of Simple Chords

Hello !

So as I have promised very long ago,


Here is the picture that i told you that i was going to do :D

I have simplified the name of the chords for you so that you can memorise them easier.

The actual names of the chords are actually G, C/D, D and  EM/D respectively :)

Remember that these are very important chords.

Well actually all chords are important but with these all you need is a capo then you can play anything in most tunes already :)

For now, try G followed by C then Em then D :D

*the ring finger and pinky dont move ya*

*btw you can move around the chords to experiment how the sound would be like*

The chords i have given. Now all you need to do is to figure out your a strumming or plucking pattern so that it would sound more like a song :D

Good luck! :D

Aug 9, 2012

Free Stuff and You : Level Malaysians

if you miss the first post, it's Here

So today Baskin Robbins gave away free scoops of ice cream to those that were willing to line up.
For something priced at RM6+, it managed to got many, many people to que for hours.

Very interesting and true post indeed. 

but of course some people said (perhaps it was those that actually que-ed for it)
said its not only about the ice cream, its the hype and atmostphere as well.

Taken from Yahoo Malaysia's Facebook.
At Mid Valley.

Stolen from my friend's facebook :P
At Aeon Jaya Jusco at Wangsa Maju

I personally know these places and i know the lines indeed are freaking long judging from the pictues and
the location the people are standing.

I want to get more pictures but its getting late and i had a really rough day.

So to then this post for now,
this is what i have to say.

Malaysians really love the word 'free'.
Where there will be 'free', where there will be flooding with people.

When i do sales,
customer's face usually will light up when i tell them i will give them free gifts.
But that bright light will go very dim when i show them the pen or tell them its a pen :P

Jul 31, 2012

Sideway Photography!

Wanted to do this quite sometime already but never had the time and resource to do it.

So yesterday while waiting for time to pass while waiting for our friends to arrive for our gathering we walked around the newly build shop lots which i don't know was called what but was at Genting Klang. :P

And suddenly, my old wild idea appeared when i saw an empty space.
We didnt had any preparations and props to make the scene look more real but we still tried our best with whatever we had in our bags.

Only with my iPhone 4s, this was what we came out with :)

Nice smile!

First time posing for like a 'shoot'.
Macam yes :P

Taken by Kah Fu!
Really really good!
Only by looking at the previous shots and some explanation he got the idea and even took better shots than me :D

Oh the floor was very very very dusty as well.

Links to show your Love and Support and Likes! :D
Picture of Kah Fu smilling :)
Picture of Me :)

So now that i've got the idea and and experiments, its time to plan for a proper one
and make some preparations to turn the world or your head around!

Thanks for visiting! :)
Really appreciate every moment of this :)

Jul 29, 2012

Friends and Behaviours

Weird friends.
We all have them.
But somehow i have a lot of them around.

Or maybe I'm the weird one that's why everyone seems different and unusual therefore 'weird'

Weird indeed it is.

Jun 27, 2012

Free Stuff and You

I don't think this is legit. At all.
(i dont say?!)

Like seriously. Free iphone? Somemore its Apple giving stuff?
Even if the sky fall and i don't think they will be so kind.
And the best part is how to win it.

By liking this page call 'Twilight Production Videography & Cinematography'
Like really? What does Apple has to do with them?
Don't you see its a dumb scam trying to get likes from you?
Where got so big punya toad simply jump wan?

and lets talk logic
You tatau Apple damn kiam siap and only wanna make profit?
Giving away 100k phones (tho maybe be nothing to them) is like going putting a hole into their vault

I really cannot believe that people are actually that ______ to think that Apple would give away free phones.

Like seriously.

Jun 25, 2012

almost Fun Friends

so i decided to spend the weekend with the guys.

i am too lazy to write. i shall let the pictures and caption speak.

after asking around for while,

i finally got the ticket

so i stayed over for the weekend.

on friday night,

Daniel the fella without sleeves drove so ganasly that hearing the honk was like listening to the radio already
and we r
onda-ed 20 minutes around whole Wangsa Maju only end up at Tong Jing 


some randome pic
FYI, this is real. legit. and is still going on now.

and how can we skip this place.
all of us would be so scared to get cheated at so we would keep shouting dont peek or 
dont 'gap kei' but some's eyes would just keep rolling around looking.

So on the actuat TT night

awesome friends

Ex Winner and Ex Finalist

before you say anything, these pics all were taken with my phone.
so the flash might look weird once in a while.

and finally

we've got 2 ex finalist on my right,
and 2 other imba people on my left.

something random.
probably you've heard of it before.

What do you call 5 men walking together?


Now dont be close minded.

so to sum up my weekend,
the word would be Fun.

and tiring.
i must be getting old.

Jun 20, 2012

Being a Banana

something i've grown up and learn to live with.

its not easy to be us.

in school primary schools,
people tease us because we are different.
when we go to other places or stages of life,
people tease us because we don't know our mother tongue.

i'm sure for many (if not for me only),
when we were younger our parents made the decision for us.
to send us to which (kind of) school.
so we didnt really had the choice then.

some say we hate our language or perhaps we don't take the effort to learn it later.
true. the only excuse i can think of is that because we are comfortable with the way we are.
since we were brought up this way and has been this way, we don't find any reason to change.
yes i know the world is changing and China is rising and is becoming more important.
but so are the other many countries and languages.

i've always considered myself half-banana (when people mention or accuses me to be one)
and its simply because i can communicate fluently with them in most Chinese dialects but only cannot read or write.
in fact, i find it amusing when i can speak more dialects to people when i do sales compared to some pure cina beng.
so what? epic fail for them?

One thing i'm sure of this just because we don't fully know or understand or utilise our language,
it doesn't make us less Chinese.

i personally know people that attended Chinese schools and speaks and writes but i dare say i can more cultural or in this sense, more Chinese than them.

so basically we are being discriminated because we don't know our language well?
what about all the other traits that we've lived with?
don't you think that is a little too much just to judge us based on one difference?

but of course its not for me to say.
all we want is some acceptance among everyone.

i know people that are from chinese schools have damn typical chinaman mindset hence can accuse us of being cultural ignorant or too western.

i suppose we all have the rights to live our own lives based on our preferences.
and if only everyone gets that idea.

but if youre still not convinced by this, then too bad for you.

because bananas are tasty and good for you.

and also,
sorry to burst your bubble but, 

more on this HERE

so you are half linked to a banana as well.
your argument is invalid now?

Jun 13, 2012

Starbucks Hojicha!

So on the 12th of June 2012,
these two drinks were release.

So being a food blogger wannabe,
i went to have my share and to test it out

Starbucks new Hojicha!

So here is how i felt about it.
First of all, its very Chatime-ish. But double the price.
Tall at rm14.50,
Grande at rm15.50
Venti at rm16.50
(excluding tax i think)

It felt powderish,
the jelly was i think if not remember wrongly was slightly not as soft as expected,
and the normal green straw we use was a little too small for something with so much chewables.

But overall it was not bad...
the feeling was smooth and the jelly tasted and blended well with the Tea.
People that likes Chatime and Starbucks would probably like this.

I would give it perhaps 7/10?

Thanks for reading! :)

Jun 12, 2012

the day that was

11 June 2011

Dear blog,

So this was what happened today.

Woke up and still felt tired even tho i slept earlier than usual with my frown still on from the
stuff that happened the night before.

And went to work like usual, with a sudden of tons of load and deadlines to meet,
Feeling groggy from the morning and it became worse when i was about to leave my workplace.

Lunch at KFC. Alone.

Lunch today was rather interesting because i saw some deaf/mute people (which i highly respect) having lunch with their baby. The way the baby was trying to get their parent's attention was rather interesting like i said.

In the silent world there is so much more peace. You just look away when you don't want to listen. But there are the bad sides as well. Oh well better not get to there now.

Finish the meal above in 10 minutes and it was too early to go back. So i just sat there to play my phone. :D

And i went back to work.

So when time was up i rushed to the bus stop to wait. duh.
So I was waiting for the bus when my friend called me. Then this bus came and I boarded. and I got bored so I brought my played my phone out to play it. tongue twister much?

it felt weird because the people wasn't the usual people and so was the driver. but i didn't gave a proper damn :)

To make sure i was on the right bus, I waited and looked for the reflection on the cars and mirrors outside to make sure. It looked right and legit so i just sat down and wondered to my usual pointless thoughts.

After about 40 minutes much later only i looked outside again and felt that the place was rather unfamiliar. Then only realised that apparently the bus was to Damai Perdana and not Desa Petaling. 
It was u46 instead of u48.
Truly it was eye screw. and opening.

Then I asked this kind girl in front of me and she replied (with her unedpexted cute voice) where was the nearest train station and so happen i was just at one. Really lucky.
and i think i forget to thank her twice. THANK YOU GOOD SAMARITAN!

walked a little and it was the Maluri station and i recognised it.

So when i got to the station, the train was down. and had to wait a while. bla bla bla.

Cut the crap short, The train came and i went to the usual bus stop to take the bus home. and since it came before my dad, the bus it was.

The bus stop. Can't see? Oh that's cause the lights are out. Again. That is apart from the fact that waiting for the bus is as hard as striking the lottery :)

Good thing i reached at the right time.

Got down the bus,
while waiting to cross the dark road with a lot of cars passing by to the supermarket, suddenly a Korean woman (which I've seen in the morning taking the same ride with me) came near me (i thought she wanted to rob me or something), said she was scared to cross the road and then grabbed my arm.

She did apologies afterwards and felt embarrassed when i saw her again at the supermarket.

Then i went home,
the nagging continued.

Watched Piranha 3DD with this.

Which i got from the supermarket earlier.
Bullshit editing and cutting and CGI. Acting and storyline was okay i think.
But i wouldn't know because the file that i copy was somehow mixed or corrupted with other files.


My initial plan was to watch something and enjoy some junk 'food' because I'm just too fed up with everything. But it didn't went well as well.

Blogging this confusing post that probably no one would read :)

So yea. i think that's all.
The day that all the unexpected happened. 

Signing off at 1159pm

Jun 9, 2012

A thought on New Devices and Gadgets

Hello readers/geeks/people/friends/strangers,

I was hit with an interesting thought by my friend yesterday :

However new or good or improved a device may be, it will not be made perfect and will have some flaws added (or maybe some features purposely left out) because if it there aren't any, then they will have hard times selling off newer or other models or even the same model to the same people because its so good that it just would not break or does not have any hardware issues (and comes with the latest version bla bla bla) and if such devices do exist or nears to almost perfection for that ponit of time, will then eventually it will be able make other models or brands not as attractive theirs, which wouldnt be easy because there are just too much choices nowadays.

But of course this 'theory' or rather wouldn't be 100% logic because improvements will somehow make the devices perform better. But if added this fact and with the thought above then perhaps they will be able to create a continues sales growth because the newer improvements would now fix what wasn't fixed before or whatever which was missing before.

And finally i think i just made my point. Because i didn't really understood what i wrote in the first paragraph :P

I wanted to to post this as Facebook status but i think it might get messy if people starting discussing and 140 characters from twitter wouldn't be enough so i decided to do it the traditional way and place.

Anyways to be honest i only mind screwed myself in this post with the words that i have been i writing for the past 20 minutes and it is not even making sense to myself. If it does make any sence to you, please leave a comment to make me understand myself.


And if you think this post is lame,
you can look at my previous post HERE perhaps to make yourself feel better or less confused.

But if it still doesn't work,
here is a picture of a dog to make you feel better

Thank you for reading.
and commenting hopefully.

Jun 8, 2012

Epic Fail People

the fail level of this is just too damn high.
probably higher than asian. 
and i don't think he is trolling.

And Kids, this is why you should have good english.

Jun 3, 2012

A day of Hiking

The reason i wanted to follow my dad for his weekly hike and training was because i missed looking at the green and is bored with the concrete trees already. it was tiring but i suppose it was worth it. not to forget the bonding while i still have the chance. 

and if you did not notice, just copied and pasted the same caption from my facebook wall
it would be awesome if you would go see it there and maybe like it or whatever :P

and i realised another thing. ive been blogging 3 days in a row. wow. thats good. i think. hahaha.


Jun 2, 2012

Another Life Achievement : Unlocked

le Craftsman Les Paul copy :)
(GS 200)
Got it for a reasonable price for a reasonable brand with a reasonably loud amp :D

i thought i was going to get it on Saturday which was
tomorrow which i was super anticipating for.
but it turned out i didn't.

intially i took half day leave to check it out first and surprisingly
 they told me that they will be closed tomorrow.
agong's birthday it seems. so it was a good thing i went today.

went there without much cash, and i cannot wait for my dad to come,
so i had to ask him to transfer some funds to me.
and my Dad did complained that i always have no patience
for the things that i wanna get.
tsk tsk tsk for me.

the sun was super hot and it was super sunny and dry...
and i walked from the shop to sg wang and forth and times square
and forth and the LRT OH THE HEAT.

somemore my had a thought of buying it and bringing it back solo by carrying the guitar
with the box with my left hand and the big ass
amp on my right hand but then i realise it was a little impossible.
so i got backup.

my brother came and help and apparently the weight
of amp itself almost killed him.
lagi lebih2 wore jacket when i told him it would be darn hot.
heh weakling :p

so yeah. that's the story of how i got this after awaiting for so long.
and another baby step to becoming a rock star.
but first i will have to practice scales and learn tabs.

anyways it looks and sound fine to me and i love it.
so whatever people say i will not listen and get affected.

good thing my mum didnt nag me.
and hopefully one day when i read back this post i will 
remember how i feel in love with my first elvetric guitar.

good bye for now.
i will blog when i blog.

i don't always blog.
but when i do, i blog.


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